Musings

Wise Quote: Build Anyway

Posted in Musings, Quotes of Wisdom on August 16th, 2011 by Vlad – 1 Comment

Probably one of my favorite quotes of all time, it is credited to Mother Theresa and is written on the wall of her home for children in Calcutta.

People are often unreasonable, irrational, and self-centered. Forgive them anyway.

If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives. Be kind anyway.

If you are successful, you will win some unfaithful friends and some genuine enemies. Succeed anyway.

If you are honest and sincere people may deceive you. Be honest and sincere anyway.

What you spend years creating, others could destroy overnight. Create anyway.

If you find serenity and happiness, some may be jealous. Be happy anyway.

The good you do today, will often be forgotten. Do good anyway.

Give the best you have, and it will never be enough. Give your best anyway.

In the final analysis, it is between you and God. It was never between you and them anyway.

 

You are Perfect

Posted in Musings, Yoga on July 11th, 2011 by Vlad – Be the first to comment

Everyone knows that people are strange, but sometimes that strangeness comes out in such beautiful and unique ways that it inspires one to want to share it with others. While passing an intersection one day I saw a man standing on the corner holding up a big sign. The sign read, “You Are Perfect” and the man holding the sign had a big smile on his face. He was clearly enjoying himself and unlike many people I see with signs wanting a handout or advertising something, he wanted nothing at all. He was simply there to spread this message and make people feel good. Passing him by, I could not help but smile. I would not be surprised if that sign made many people slow down just a bit, think just a little deeper, and perhaps even smile.

Like a gardener planting seeds to eventually sprout into plants, this man is planting a thought seed that we are all perfect and that so much of the stress in our lives comes from self- induced desire to compare, strive, and fight to achieve something better. If only we could take a little time each day to contemplate the meaning of, “You Are Perfect”. But who is this you that is perfect? Is the body perfect? No certainly not, there are aches and pains, things break and despite our best efforts the body is bound to change, grow older and eventually decay. So is the personality perfect? We all have our insecurities, our weaknesses, our faults and all those strange quirky things that we do that make each person so unique and individual.

What is left of the “You” then? If we look at the above statement through the eyes of Yoga, we can talk about the you that is perfect as something that is ever constant – the unchanging self which is within all of us. After all, the full aim of Yoga – from the root word to yoke or join – can be interpreted as the joining the individual “you” with the cosmic “YOU”. The individual “you” is compromised of memories, feelings, sensory perceptions. On a conscious and sub-conscious level it manifests in our habits and our character.

The big “YOU” is the spirit within, it is the real you and it is changeless and timeless, always present in the now. Maybe, that man standing on the corner was simply reminding us that it is the big “YOU” that is perfect. Since it is a part of you and within you, it is available always for you to experience. To remember that truth and look within for it is spiritual practice. This is meditation, this is Yoga. To touch that truth within is to experience bliss, event if only for a moment. Once that stillness and peace is felt, we begin to yearn and desire for another taste. Having tasted an intoxicating fruit, we hunger for another bite. This desire is the drive and the fire which propels us towards a spiritual life.

May we all one day remember and dwell in the experience of this bliss. To know this is to truly know that “You Are Perfect.” May we all reach perfection not through striving, not through struggling, but through discrimination, dispassion, non-attachment, and a keen mental sharpness. Ask yourself these words, “What am I becoming, and what is the world asking me to become?”

A short video about the man with the sign. His name is Benjamin Smythe and you can find his website here!

A Story About Love

Posted in Musings, Quotes of Wisdom on February 14th, 2011 by Vlad – 1 Comment

Once upon a time, in an island there lived six feelings and emotions: Happiness, Knowledge, Love, Sadness, Richness and Vanity. One day they discovered that the island began sinking! So all of them built boats and canoes and left, one by one. Except for Love. Love wanted to delay abandoning her beloved island as long as possible.

When the island had almost sunk, Love decided to ask for help.

Richness was passing by Love in a boat. Love asked, “Richness, can you take me with you?”

Richness answered, “Sorry, Love, I can’t. There is a lot of gold and silver in my boat, so there is no place here for you. With both of us in here we will sink for sure.”

Love next asked Vanity who was also sailing by, but Vanity offered the same answer.

“I can’t help you, Love. You are all wet and might damage my boat,” Vanity answered.

Sadness was close by, so Love asked, “Sadness, take me along with you.”

“Oh . . . Love, I am so sad that I need to be by myself!”, sadness said in a gloomy voice.

Happiness passed by Love, too, but she was so preoccupied with her happiness that she did not even hear when Love called her.

Suddenly, there was a voice, “Come, Love, I will take you.”

It was an elder with a tattered head scarf. An overjoyed Love jumped into the boat. When they arrived at a dry land, the elder went her own way.

Love looked around and saw the Knowledge who was the first to have landed there a while ago.

“Who Helped me?” Love asked.

“It was Time,” Knowledge answered.

“Time? Why time?” Love was surprised.

“Because only Time is capable of understanding how valuable Love is.” The Knowledge smiled.

4 Kinds of People

Posted in Musings, Quotes of Wisdom on December 14th, 2010 by Vlad – Be the first to comment

In darkness there is suffering and pain. Filled with low places where fear dwells and rears its head. This darkness is ignorance of the real.

In the light the good shines bright. Where goodwill towards ourselves and others prevails. It is the place where truth and joy dwell.

Thus, it is said that there are only four kinds of people in the world:

There are those that move from darkness towards darkness.

There are those that move from light towards darkness.

There are those that move from darkness towards light.

There are those that move from light towards light.

Which one are you becoming?

Which does the world need you to become?

Purity

Posted in Musings, Quotes of Wisdom on December 14th, 2010 by Vlad – Be the first to comment

Just as it is easy to see the purity in a newborn, so it is easy to see the goodness in a smile.

Farm more difficult is the gift to look upon a dark face filled with contempt, fear, or suffering and see the purity deep within.

Yes it is there.

Yes it is hidden.

Yes, there is always the infinite potential to reach it.

Take people as they are, but show them what they can truly become.

Impermanence

Posted in Musings, Quotes of Wisdom on December 14th, 2010 by Vlad – Be the first to comment
When I look upon a child I can see the old body they will inevitably inhabit.
When I see the old, I see the child that once was.
Yet through their form may differ, I can look past it and see spirit within.
It is to this spirit that I offer my smile, that I offer my helping hand, that I offer my love.

Two Monks

Posted in Musings, Quotes of Wisdom, Stress Management, Yoga on November 29th, 2010 by Vlad – Be the first to comment

Two Monks

Click to hear the a short story of two monks, and what they can teach us

about letting go of past burdens….